CHILDREN AND THERAPEUTIC NURSERY
CHILD’S HEALTH/SKIN DISORDERS: ECZEMA PREVENTION
When to see your doctor
• if you suspect that this is the first episode of eczema in your child;
• if the rash is weeping or bleeding;
• there is no significant improvement after a few days, despite the measures you usually take for your child’s eczema;
• if your child is having trouble sleeping due to excessive itching;
• if your child is generally unwell in addition to the rash;
• if you have any doubts that the rash is due to eczema.
Prevention
Avoid dressing your child in woollens and synthetics. Cotton garments are preferred for a child who has eczema. Avoid the use of soaps and bath preparations. Avoid overheating as this can make the itch worse. Avoid very hot baths or showers. If you suspect that your child’s eczema is due to a food allergy, but have been unable to find out which is the offending food, discuss the possibility and value of allergy testing with your doctor.
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YOUR CHILD’S HEALTH CARE: WATER SAFETY AND, SPORT AND SPORTING INJURIES
WATER SAFETY
Drowning is almost always preventable. Always supervise your toddler or young child around water. There is no such thing as ‘drownproofing’ a young child. By all means, take your child swimming with you to get him used to water — most children can begin swimming lessons at preschool or early school age — but do not will not!
Make sure you can see your child all the time when near water. Do not rely on supervision by other children, or on the use of safety devices such as floaties — they will not prevent your child from drowning. Check all the gates and fences around your pool. Make sure that they are child resistant.
The foundations of our fitness and well-being are established during childhood. Athletic activity provides children with the opportunity to develop self-confidence and interpersonal skills. Involvement in athletic events also exposes children to physical and emotional risks. Parents and sporting coaches have a vital role to play in preventing and minimising any sort of trauma or injury. Children who are involved with a sport often focus all their attention on participation and enjoyment. Fear seems to disappear as the game progresses. A child will often unwittingly go beyond the limits of safety. It is the responsibility of adults to anticipate potential hazards and enforce the rules.
Sporting injuries seen most often in children are bruises, cuts and grazes, as well as fractures of limbs. Head injuries can occur in children, but these are fortunately rare. Simple measures such as the wearing of protective clothing are often the most important in the prevention and treatment of sporting injuries in children.
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YOUR MARITAL HEALTH/FINDING OUT WHO’S THE MATTER WITH US: HOT SEXUALPROBLEMS – SHORTENING OF REFRACTORY PERIOD
SHORTENING OF REFRACTORY PERIOD: I think I could go again and again. We don’t, but I can have sex and then go into the bathroom and masturbate and then come back and have sex.
I just stop because we stop. I can get ready in a matter of a few minutes, no, seconds. I could do it over and over if I had to, ïî, I mean, if I wanted to.
Can you tell which is the husband and which is the wife? The first is the wife. Both partners are experiencing shortened refractory periods in part because of hyperarousal and in part because of their “hot running, keep on going” style of living. There is less of a refractory period following a hurried, less intense sexual experience than following a mutually involving, prolonged, emotionally intense sexual interaction. One hundred eleven men and 44 women reported this type of problem as occurring often in their sexual relationships. Remember that the problems mentioned here are re-norted at a higher frequency when the question is changed to “Have vou ever experienced this problem?” instead of “Is this problem characteristic of your sexual relationship?” When the first question is asked, all of us have some or many of these problems sometimes, and discussing them even before they are experienced can be good preventive sexual therapy.
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THE DESEXUALIZATION OF THE AMERICAN MARRIAGE/A SEXUAL-SYSTEM EXAM: THE SEXUAL “CONNECTION”
We just don’t connect. When I say up, she says down. If I’m horny, she’s not, and if she is, I’m not. She says it’s because of my “period.” She says I have worse periods than she does.
DISCONNECTION:
SENSE OF HUMOR, TRAGEDY, VALUES IS COMPLETELY DIFFERENT
HUSBAND
CONNECTION:
SENSE OF HUMOR, TRAGEDY, FAIRNESS, VALUES IS THE SAME FOR BOTH SPOUSES
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CONNECTION DISCONNECTION
Do you laugh and cry with your spouse about the same things, reacting in the same fashion and intensity to life events (connection)? Or do you seem to be at different emotional levels, out of sync, with few examples of shared emotional response (disconnection)?
The dinner couple scored too far toward disconnection. Remember that some disconnection, a tolerance for different emotional levels at different times, is necessary in marriage, but this couple is out of balance, too out of sync. The wife felt a lonely sense of tragedy at her marital situation, surrender regarding the children, and compliance in sexual interactions. Her emotional reaction was unshared by her husband, who instead felt boredom, disregard, or lack of involvement with the children. He was invigorated by activities that had little to do directly with the marriage. While the wife cried alone at the dinner table and felt sad, the husband drove alone to the softball game and felt frustrated.
Disconnection was apparent in their sexual life. “I’d love it if she would do oral love more. You know. Suck on me down here. She does it, but it’s not like she wants to or anything. It’s kind of a gift or a trade-off. A little sucking for a little hugging.” The husband hoped for but did not find in his wife a connection, a shared sexual arousal in an important part of his sexual life.
The wife felt quite differently. She performed fellatio because she perceived them as a couple of “high order,” and things always seem to get done. The wife reported, “I don’t mind doing it, you know. Going down on him, I guess it is. But he makes it more of a prostitute thing. I like to be stroked and touched. It’s like he wants me to do it ‘to him’; we don’t do it together or anything. He just lies there, pushes my head down, and humps at me. I’m afraid I’ll gag or throw up. Just because he likes me to do it to him, he assumes I should like it when he does it to me. Well, I don’t. I can’t stand it.”
Our highly ordered couple is disconnected, going through the sexual motions, with both partners disappointed. Their dinner-table situation reflected the same pattern. The entire sexual system is out of balance, leaning first to too much order, then to too much disconnection.
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PSORIASIS – TREATMENT
It is hereditary and tends to run in families. It may be brought on, or made worse, by emotional factors, by injury or by infection. It may be mild or severe, be localised to one or two areas or generalised and affect the whole body. It may be stable and chronic or it may be unstable, rapidly flaring and active.
The treatment of psoriasis is well established although new treatments have been introduced for severe and resistant rashes.
Sufferers need to understand the aims and limitations of treatment, and the nature of their disease. The rash, being chronic and incurable, tends to come and go. It may be present unchanged for many years and the person comes to terms with it. Then it may suddenly clear, only to reappear months later.
Treatment may completely clear the rash but it will inevitably return as there is no permanent cure. But this shouldn’t discourage those who suffer from it, as control is possible.
It is uncommon on the face. Only one person in four with this condition will have it affect more than 5 per cent of the skin surface.
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NIGHT CRAMPS
Many people suffer in bed at night from painful cramps, usually involving the calf muscles or the small muscles in the sole of the foot.
These cramps are not usually related to any underlying problem but are thought to be due to mechanical factors.
With normal muscle tone, each group of muscles has an antagonistic group which pulls the limb in the opposite direction. When the muscles are completely at rest, as can occur in bed, normal contraction of some muscles may occur without the antagonists being activated and so the extreme contraction leads to painful cramping.
When you lie flat on your back in bed, the weight of the bed clothes may push the foot down. The same thing can happen when you lie face down and the foot is forced down. Should contraction occur in the calf muscles, the foot is already in extreme flexion.
One way of preventing this cramping action is to keep the foot in a neutral position, by having a pillow at the bottom of the bed, so the foot is neither down nor up. One way of stopping cramp is to force the foot into the opposite direction so the contracting muscle is forced to lengthen.
Quinine taken at night can certainly reduce the frequency of cramps. How it works is unknown, but it is effective.
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COLDS, RESPIRATORY INFECTIONS – CROUP
Croup usually develops suddenly and the child, well on gtyng to bed, might wake during the night with the typical croupy cough — a hard “brassy” sound — and have difficulty in breathing. The larynx is swollen and there is marked difficulty in breathing in.
In asthma, by contrast, there is difficulty in breathing out. Normally when we breathe in, the chest expands and the rib cage moves out. When there is obstruction to the free inward flow of air, the mobile chest of the child moves inwards when breathing in and rib retraction becomes obvious.
Sometimes the obstruction is so marked that the child needs a tracheotomy (opening made in the windpipe) so that he can breathe.
Children with distressed breathing due to croup may get great relief from breathing warm, moist air. This can be delivered by means of a special machine which can be bought or hired.
Filling the bathroom with steam by running the hot taps and closing the door and windows may be quickly effective.
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YOUR CANCER YOUR LIFE – PATTERNS OF SECONDARY GROWTH (PART 2)
When cancer cells lodge in lymph nodes or other parts of the body, they don’t always immediately start multiplying to form an obvious secondary growth. Cancer cells have the ability to lie dormant, sometimes for many years. You could think of them as seeds which are waiting for the right conditions before they start growing. It is this ability of cancer cells to lie hidden and dormant which makes it very difficult to know whether we have completely got rid of every cancer cell. The only real test is the passage of time—we must wait until every hidden cancer cell would have started to grow and make its presence obvious. This length of time differs for different types of cancer. With some cancers we can be very confident of a cure after only two years free of any signs of disease; in others, secondary growths can still develop twenty or more years later.
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